How To Stop Making Pain the Problem To Fix | #333

In this episode, I’m exploring a gap I see so many skilled practitioners fall into, not because they don’t have enough tools or techniques, but because of how they’re approaching pain. Too often, we slip into “fix-it mode,” seeing clients as though something is broken. What I’ve come to understand is that pain isn’t the […]

The Mechanics of Real Change – From Pain to Possibility Part 3 of 3

In this final episode of my three-part series, I explore what happens when a client doesn’t want to talk. Whether they’re silent, shut down, or resisting the moment is rich with information, not failure. I’ll guide you through how to recognize the power of presence, how to stay grounded when words are few, and how […]

The Mechanics of Real Change – From Pain to Possibility Part 2 of 3

In this episode I explore what happens after the pain starts to subside, those powerful moments of relief that so often get brushed aside. This is where real change begins. You’ll hear how to help your clients (or yourself) recognize what’s present when pain is gone, and why naming that new sensation- calm, spaciousness, stability, creates the foundation for […]

The Mechanics of Real Change – From Pain to Possibility Part 1 of 3

In this episode, I’m kicking off a new three-part series called The Mechanics of Real Change. I’m diving deep into what I’ve seen over the past 30 years truly helps people get out of pain, and stay out. I share a story from a recent cycling trip in Italy that helped me see, once again, how […]